We live life asking many questions that revolve around the what, when, where, why, and how? Mostly in the ultimate question that is, when will I be happy? When will it be my turn? Which, in my past mistakes, were circled a perception of a perfect world. In many of these scenarios, it set meContinue reading “The Map of Our World – What I Learned Through My Life Coaching Training”
To avoid upsetting people, I am going to leave my beliefs out of this. The truth is, watching this impeachment trial unfold, I looked at this with a scientific psychological mindset, which many were arguing at first that the 25th amendment is something that is used in this case. Where our current president’s mental stabilityContinue reading “Opinion:The Disturbing Findings In the Impeachment Election”
Last night, I had a continuous dream that began where it left off after waking up three different times. The truth is it almost was the scariest nightmare that somehow I gained control of and had me the protagonist in the dream. Ironically enough, it inspired my next Sci-FI Novel series that plays into theContinue reading “The Sister Series to “The Rideshare Chronicles””
Macklemore & Ryan Lewis – Ten Thousand Hours macklemore & Ryan Lewis is one of my favorite artist because of one huge factor. They both have the courage in themselves to be vulnerable in the public eye. This one song has a lot of meaning for me personally. As it paints the picture of myContinue reading “Song of the Day”
Have you ever interacted with someone that you begin to notice traumatic or erratic behaviors that don’t seem like their norm? In many cases, this is due to the onset of trauma that they experienced. In many situations, when people experience a trigger in a current moment of trauma. Do you also notice a behaviorContinue reading “How Victimhood Fuels The Need For Validity and Acceptance”
One of those socially acceptable things that occurs in our everyday norm is that manipulative act that is gaslighting. Originally published in September, getting pass the gaslighting is the one step that gets you pass the never ending circle of the insecurity and self doubt of the social influence of social norms.
Group dynamics can be the wrench in our own self development. Here’s what you need to know on how validation may be your way of self sabotaging.
Ariana Grande – Focus When I started this writing venture, I had a lot of critics. When I posted this song, you can count on those same people attempting to dump their toxic comments about my attempts getting nowhere. A year later, I have two books published and a book series that I created thatContinue reading “Song Of The Day”
Available now for preorder today Highway to Hell https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08S62YSYT/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glc_Azq9Fb6W4CCZP
Date for the release of the second book for “The Rideshare Chronicles Book Series” has been set to be released for 3/23/2021. Preorders coming soon. The follow is set to be released in Summer 2021 followed by the fourth book in the series for Fall/Winter 2021 followed by the fifth book early 2022. Check outContinue reading “The “Rideshare Chronicles – Highway To Hell” Release Date”
In the Fear of Victimhood One of the things that I realize that those stuck in trauma is we become hypocritical in many of our behaviors when we internalize those traumatic events. We tend to be judged and vile when we see others engage in the same behaviors that we won’t admit to ourselves asContinue reading “The Slippery Slope of Anti-Social and Passive Aggressive Behavior”
That Victimhood Brings I use this picture as this depicts the many faces that trauma and fear bring. I say this out of the experience as my life before my awakening. The truth is we tend to show all these facial expressions as this is the way that we attempt to cope with the traumasContinue reading “The Insecurity and Self Doubt in Fear”
The Ancient Practice of Artistic Human Expression Art has always been the portrayal of a timeline of the history of so many things in the timeline in human existence. From literature to theater and music to portraits and sculptures, all have some creative background stories. Art has always been a way where artists of allContinue reading “The Art of Turning Trauma Into Creativity”
Many of us think of victimhood or a victimized mentality as an extreme behavior of making excuses for the things that people don’t tend to not take control of in their lives. However, there are many levels in the intentions of victimhood. Many of us, even though we may not admit it. Or tell ourselvesContinue reading “The Double Edge Sword That is Victimhood”
Now GTFO With Your Bullshit 2020 is going to be a year. I will always remember it for obvious reasons. We got hit with something that was out of our control, and we were left to figure out how we were going to make it through this pandemic. Being one of those less fortunate families,Continue reading “Goodbye 2020 Thanks For The Pendejadas”