The Unwanted title of The Girl On Fire

How easy it was to be outcasted by one mistake that can fixed. Which in turn was a small mistake. Made into a witch hunt after they bandwagon you to be something you’re not and make those believe that the intentions you never had are truth. That the change we all want to see doesn’t…

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Grandma Lives A Thug Thug – Why This Is Not Your Typical Fairy Tale Red Riding Hood

Even those in the wrong that walked away for me, gained a bit of strength from them and learned a lot from them. Both in the positive and the negative aspect. It made me also see the mistakes they made that kept them from consistently keeping me strong. Which for me it’s water under the…

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The Scam of the Entity of For Profit Schooling

As in many of these cases are not even told that it’s a for-profit school to begin with, which comes the gimmick of “rainbow and gumdrops” idealism that begins the first experience of systematic racism. FRIEDA LOPEZ – The Scam of the Entity of For Profit Schooling One of the most biggest scams in today’s…

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Just How Big Is The Big Small World We Live In

Where key words for those who catch on. Infiltrate them from experiencing the effects to their cause. While others in “super ego” attempt to continue to believe I was not being the genuine person that I portrayed. As in super ego or narcissism is a common characteristic. Which made them see who they really were,…

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The Problems In Culturalism

The destructive behaviors we gained in hypothetically learned behavior through culturalism. Here’s what you should know.

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The Bad Behaviors in the Entitlement of Revenge

Which in this presence. An eye for an eye was all inspired by a domino effect of bad behaviors that if those who knew better would of done the simple thing; the right thing. This story line would have never occurred in the first place. Frieda Lopez – The Bad Behaviors in the Entitlement of…

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Problems that Want to Be Solved – The Truth Behind Self Preservation

There the ugliness of stereotyping, belittling, and deception comes into a selfish act of preserving their well-being. Which staying away from the gray area, still would be selfish when you get backed in the corner. Because the one thing that also revealed was that we purposely turn a blind eye for the sake of self…

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Just How Sexist Is The World We Live In

I encountered a article by Hope Lasater called 17 Real Examples Of Subtle Sexism That Made Me So Angry that touched home. Where the examples given are so relatable. Which made me think about my own experiences and how social norms turns the other ways or spins this as an act of being over sensitive.…

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The Unkept Promises of the Perceptions of Public Perfection

Where my short time going to a private school, I got expelled for giving a student a swirly because the bitch thought she could insult my background. Where made me see early on, the effects of how cruel systematic racism truly was. Frieda Lopez – The Unkept Promises of the Perceptions of Public Perfection Some…

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The Destructive Domino Effect – The Power We Take For Granted

As the truth was, that they were using bandwagoning tactics to attempt to have me believe something that I didn’t think was truth. Which later on in the journey realized that it was a response of the constant trauma bonds I put myself due to the fear of being alone Frieda Lopez – The Destructive…

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Solace From Solitude – The Power of Loneliness

But in the face of threat or fear is when the act that we all engage in is the act of trying to “scare that threat and fear away” that we find in other people. Which just puts us in a predicament that we are full circle to the habits we don’t change. And having…

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Breakaway Little Song Bird – The Start of the Journey to Freedom

Which the third time, getting the offer from Sprint in Houston, I said I couldn’t back down and would follow through. Which turned out to be the best decision I ever made in my whole entire life. Little did I know, it would be the start of the journey to freedom. Frieda Lopez – Breakaway…

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How the Ugly Duckling Turned into Phoenix – Embracing the Flaws and All

We all have something, including insecurities. Here what ran though my mind when writing How the Ugly Ducking Turned Into Phoenix.

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Psychology of Patience

Society I feel, has distorted many of the values with meanings that become convenience to them that has been passed down from generation to generation. Patience in a sense is a behavior that I feel is convenient for those who said “be patient” to allow them more time to if I may be blunt “get…

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Psychology of Diligence

Diligence is something we hear about, but it’s not explained it feels. You hear “Do your due diligence” many times, but what does this really mean? Well the definition of diligence is as follows: careful and persistent work or effort. Where something I preach about, consistency goes hand and hand if you really think about…

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The Movement That Became

The “Journey of an Unraveled Road For the long time I wanted to write a book. The “Journey of an Unraveled Road” first started before it was even thought to be a book. Truth of the matter is, I thought life was completely over. It initially started at the place of employment I use to…

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