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Rise above the gaslight

By: Frieda Lopez at Frieda the Writer September 24, 2020September 24, 2020

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An oldie but a goodie. Here is the early start of my journey.

The Ignorance of Perception

By: Frieda Lopez at Frieda the Writer September 22, 2020September 22, 2020

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An oldie but a goodie. Here are my early thoughts on perception.

The Reflections from Deflection

By: Frieda Lopez at Frieda the Writer September 9, 2020September 4, 2020

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An oldie but a goody. Here is what deflection reflects about you.

Self doubt is something we all carry in our life’s. It’s not about holding in these emotions but nipping them head on. Here’s the story on what eliminating self doubt does. As the protagonist in “The Rideshare Chronicles” Alessandra deals with this in the story, she becomes the super hero he all can relate to and need in this modern day era.

The Self Doubt of Self Preservation

Let’s be real we all have self preserved in one way or another but what are we self preserving. The perception of what we want people to perceive us as? Or the person we really are? Check out this classic from me early blogging days.

I Am Loyal, Brave, and True

The Disservice We Do To There is no doubt that I borrowed this blog post from Christina Aguilera’s song “Loyal, Brave, and True” and for good reason. Before l get into the post let me just vent about society for a bit. Why do we live in a society of bandwagoning and use individual’s personal…

Spoiled Self Sabotage Stemmed by a Spoiled Society by a Simulated Reality

An oldie and a goodie. One of my earlier blogs. I see the growth I’ve had from my earlier blogging days

Our Degrading Behavior of Our Own Self Worth

An oldie but a goodie

The Beauty of Imperfection

Entitlement is shown in everything we do in life. Whether it be trying to get ahead in traffic, cutting in a line or even showing an action to someone in the act of degrading all the shows is that we feel more important than the ones that are around us. Entitlement is shown in everything…

The Grimm Wonderland of Social Norms

Holding myself accountable for the things I did helped me forgive myself. Holding accountable for the actions that resulted to effect from their cause eliminated. Setting boundaries with both my expectations with adding that I also expect those to hold me accountable and as long as open communication that was both safe for all involved…

Stereotypes from Segregated Stigmas

Nonverbal queues say a lot about the things a person is thinking or feeling but can’t say. I once was told I was a people pleasure. For the longest time I thought was that case, but coming to realize it wasn’t a act of satisfying someone’s ego. It was to even if it was for…