The Tears That I No Longer Cry

People wonder if I am hiding and concealing other underlining issues. This is why I have no more tears left to cry.

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The Best and Worst Case Scenario of Determination to Survive

With what’s coming to light here’s a oldie but a goodie

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A Short Story Blog Series

Hey guys come check out out my fiction short story series about the trials and the triumphs of life behind the untold tales behind the American Wall. Each week I will be featuring short story starting with the todays story called “Paralyzed By Closed Doors.” Check it out at friedathewriter.com/myoppressedlife

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The Second Lesson Must Always Hurt

Oldie but a goodie. This depicts the moment I let go.

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Song of The Day

Ke$ha – Learn To Let Go “Learn to Let Go” was the song that made me realize that the internalized pains that I had were resolved and if not completely resolved, resolving. The truth of the matter I began to realize that I was the only one holding myself back, allowing the things that people…

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Silence of Our Own True Self – Engaging In Positive True Self

An oldie but a goody. Here was my philosophical way of approaching self efficacy

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Song of the Day

Lady Gaga – Million Reasons Lady Gaga’s “Million Reasons” was the song that had me asking for a sign through the wreckage that I thought at the time would never heal. Being told that I had one year to live, made me want to lose hope completely, thinking it wouldn’t get any better. Boy was…

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A Million Reasons To A Perfect Illusion

This week is a very special week for me. This is the month that based on the beginning of the journey. This was originally the day I was meant to die based on the terminal status. This month was also the month that I made the decision to be the change back in 2019, this…

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The Song of The Day

Lady Gaga – Perfect Illusion Lady Gaga expressed perfectly the resentment I had during the journey. Perfect Illusion is just exactly that, the things I thought I attained where just that….an illusion. One of the hardest things to admit was this truth which after realizing made me feel abused, used, and undermined. The pride that…

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What’s in The Actions Behind the Actions – The Question Behind the Question

Shakespeare is one of the greats in literary history. He in the form of theater was able to decrypt the things that was the humanity in the history we now can only assume occurred based on the artifacts that remain. One of the amazing facts is that Shakespeare was known to be ahead of his…

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Song of the Day

Ke$ha – Praying Ke$ha’s “Praying” was one of the most bittersweet songs in my journey. Truth is as she says “I learned how to fight for myself” as I was standing alone. Ironically enough in my journey, it ended in crying as she says “I hope you find your peace” is what I hoped for…

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Grimm Realism of our Distorted Optimism

An oldie but a goodie on how risk perception and the perceptions of yourselves potential lead us to being part of the problem.

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Why Mulan Was So Emotional For Me

We live in a world where we are forced to play roles where made to believe is who we are. Mulan shows otherwise. Although this takes place in the times of the Ming Dynasty, it portrays the realness that takes us back, as the MeToo Movement was something I never would be a victim of.…

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The Power of Goodbye and The Power of Gratitude

An oldie but a goodie. Here’s the power of good-bye along with gratitude.

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